Ask An Italian: Where's the Line?

Every week, Francesco Serra, our good friend and expert on all things Italian, gives us perspective on Italian culture. Residing in the northern city of Padova, but being a fiercely proud native Calabrian, he brings a unique perspective on all things Italian.

Our question today for Francesco....why is it that Italians never seem to get in an orderly line, say like the British or Americans do? When I'm in Italy I never know what to do, and feel intimidated to tell someone, hey, I was here first. Can you give me some insight and some advice on how to survive waiting my turn around a bunch of Italians?

We Italians look strange outside of our country, that's for sure, and sometimes its not only in the ways you would expect. There are many things which are typical of Italians, like never getting in an orderly line, or, better yet, never keeping the line ordered. ;) The fact is that we often start standing in a line one after another, but if the line grows over three people, then the line has some trouble... So, if you're in a crowded place, you will often find someone who has astutely exploited your momentary disregard for your place in line. I think this behavior stems from our "Latin" roots, which in my opinion causes most crazy behaviors in countries with Latin descendants.

The best advice I can give you is to always pay attention to who is around you, so you can understand who's more likely to try to be slick. If you notice that someone tries to steal your turn, put yourself in a place where you can control the potential stealer by subtly blocking him with your shoulder :)

Enjoy your next line in Italy!

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